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Zeina Zayour's avatar

I don’t know whether to laugh or cry at this. But thanks for sharing. It reminded me of my pre-meltdown days. When I ran myself down to the ground and woke up on the other side of what the hell am I doing with my life. This sounds really tough. No wonder you are always talking about wanting to quit your job and write as a career.

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Slow Ink Society's avatar

I hope you laughed, because that’s what I ended up doing too :) No low lasts forever, and I’ve just gotten better at managing mine (I hope!). But now I’m curious, how did you make it to the other side?

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Zeina Zayour's avatar

I am definitely the type who will cry then move to laughing very quikcly :). Well, first there was 3 months of mental health leave, then I quit my job, then a few years of consulting, and re-learning the same lesson of not getting sucked in by work and the drama of work. Now I am unemployed (thanks to Trump's USAID cuts). So I don't know if I really made it to be honest. I dont know if I will survive 9-5 again. I am praying I would (if I actually find a job again). It is just one big mess. We are just one big mess honesty. Better focus on eating well, sleeping well, exericing and keeping the tank full :P

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Slow Ink Society's avatar

Thank you for sharing all this so openly. Honestly, if the world needs to be watching anyone’s mess, it’s Trump. His chaos makes the rest of us look shockingly put-together 😅

Just like you, I really think we’re meant to be a bit messy. The questions you’re asking (about 9-to-5s and how to not get crushed by work) I’m asking them too. I don’t have the answers yet, but I’m committed to figuring it out (I hope I do at some point at least).

And honestly, I think you made it :) you've left what didn't work for you. That's not only brave, it's wisdom collected! And I agree: sometimes all we need to start by doing is keeping the tank full :)

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Zeina Zayour's avatar

Hehe.. Thanks :) Small steps... small steps matter

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Slow Ink Society's avatar

They really do!

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